HELLO!
Let’s talk about love and attachment, secure relating and relationships that last.
HELLO!
Let’s talk about love and attachment, secure relating and relationships that last.
HELLO!
Let’s talk about love and attachment, secure relating and relationships that last.
I'm Alan Robarge, Attachment-Focused Psychotherapist and Relationship Educator.
Are you repeating old hurts in new relationships? It's possible you've inherited a relationship template and operating system from childhood that's proving unreliable and outdated. Attachment injuries, despite your best intentions, are hijacking how you pick partners and manage intimacy today. This old operating system has a name. It's called insecure attachment.
For some of us, it's better labeled attachment trauma. There's a range of behaviors influencing how we show up in relationships, specifically our comfort levels with emotional availability. This range is categorized into four different relating blueprints known as attachment styles. To learn more, click the button below to register for my free course, "What's Love Got to Do With It?"
I'm Alan Robarge, Attachment-Focused Psychotherapist and Relationship Educator.
Are you repeating old hurts in new relationships? It's possible you've inherited a relationship template and operating system from childhood that's proving unreliable and outdated. Attachment injuries, despite your best intentions, are hijacking how you pick partners and manage intimacy today. This old operating system has a name. It's called insecure attachment.
For some of us, it's better labeled attachment trauma. There's a range of behaviors influencing how we show up in relationships, specifically our comfort levels with emotional availability. This range is categorized into four different relating blueprints known as attachment styles. To learn more, click the button below to register for my free course, "What's Love Got to Do With It?"
Secure relating is a learned skill.
Insecure attachment means we mostly respond with either preoccupied-anxious neediness or fearful-dismissive avoidance. We enter a push-pull, distancer-pursuer relationship dance. It's distressing and undermines trust. It ruins intimacy - which means you're set up to fail in love.
The good news is I teach new dance steps that break this cycle. I show people how to go beyond their learned anxious or avoidant relating, and instead move towards trusting, secure relating. In our work together, I will help you learn better bonding skills that improve your relationships.
I offer these pathways to healing:
COMMUNITY
Benefit from the structured, reoccurring 8-week program alongside 24/7 community support from like-minded learners.
COUNSELING
Benefit from real-time video conversations offered to couples and individuals needing more in-depth, personal guidance.
COMMUNITY
Benefit from the structured, reoccurring 8-week program alongside 24/7 community support from like-minded learners.
COUNSELING
Benefit from real-time video conversations offered to couples and individuals needing more in-depth, personal guidance.
"I help people living with developmental, emotional attachment trauma learn how to create securely attached relationships."
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